I once told a friend about how I got confused over some personal matters and she just said I should just laugh at the confusion. The thought of laughing at the confusion was at first not considerable but after taking some time to think about the situation, I somehow did consider just "going with the flow".
For as long as I can take it, I better go with the flow and savor the moments. After all I am counting much on the moments and not on what should have been said. It might still be a puzzle with a few pieces missing but I know in the long run I might be able to find that missing piece that could best give me the answers.